不知不覺的 熱愛著你
不知不覺的 深愛著你
- 4月 16 週一 201223:10
不知不覺
不知不覺的 熱愛著你
不知不覺的 深愛著你
- 3月 26 週一 201223:43
It's a Beautiful Restriction
[Seohyun] May it be a happy day
Opening my eyes I get to pray every morning
Cause I fear the happiness might run away
[Taeyeon] I am fortunate to meet you
I finally got things to do on holidays
Set the the date, meet and part you
[Tiffany] It's slowly becoming tough
To let you go in front of your house
What should I do?
[Jessica] It's my first time
At last I fell in love
Me who loved myself
And liked being alone
A whole new myself came to me
[Sunny] It's a beautiful restriction
How love changes a man
So wonderful today to be alive
[Jessica] It's slowly becoming tough
To let you go in front of your house
What should I do?
- 2月 28 週二 201221:27
暫停，我的鞋子掉了。
暫停，我的鞋子掉了。
我們快20年沒見了
那年小時候的我們沒有選擇的權力，喬輕輕的走了
離開後我遺失了妳的地址，妳也無從傳遞消息於我
很久以後偶然聽到別人說妳長大了，變很多
變的漂亮、變的讓人心動
我只能偷偷想像，看著別人拍的照片
這麼多年來，我想..
就算揮別了康橋也揮不去妳
這次我鼓起勇氣，終於找了個藉口可以去見妳
親愛的，就算妳沒變，我還是一樣那麼想妳
到時不會馬上走近妳
要和妳保持一段近鄉情怯的距離
然後看著妳的雙眸道聲：「好久不見，我的小名還是妳最初認識的猴媽。」
我的故鄉
喬悄悄的回來過了
- 2月 27 週一 201223:26
[Live] How Great is Your Love 韓中字
- 2月 19 週日 201223:55
合適、真的比愛重要
很多時候，很容易被「我們很相愛」感動，慢慢經歷了一些事情，對於相愛這事兒多少存了一點疑心。如今，倘若一對男女決定在一起，我更希望聽到他們自信滿滿地說，我們在一起，真的很合適。
只有愛情不代表就能結婚
當初愛得深，是因為太過想像。在愛情中，惺惺相惜最重要，而婚姻考驗的卻是兼容性。兩個同樣高品質的零件，不在一台機器上時，彼此傾慕，你中有我，我中有你。放到一台機器上，運轉起來，卻往往因為雙方的功能都過於強大與張揚，而你磕了我，我磕了你。
沒有愛情的婚姻是有風險的，然而，如果覺得只有愛情就可以結婚，恐怕風險更大。「如果覺得合適就結婚吧」，這是無數母親面對女兒的終身大事時的態度。她沒有說愛，而說合適，不是因為「愛」這個字眼太黃色太肉麻，她說不出口，而是在潛意識裡，經歷了漫長婚姻生活的母親們，看重的不再是愛，而是合適。
先磨合到「合適」再談論婚姻
大仲馬說：「爭吵與傷害，正是試探愛的手段。」每一個有過深愛的人都應該清楚，當你很深很深地愛著一個人，往往是無法容忍平淡的。隔三岔五就要製造事端， 讓雙方的情緒陷入谷底。從谷底掙紮起來的痛疼感是對愛最好的證明。所謂愛恨交織，沒有恨，也就沒有愛。愛得死去活來的戀人，在老輩人看來，多半不宜走入婚姻，所謂「深愛不壽」。或者乾脆來個愛情馬拉松，先磨合到「合適」，再談論婚姻。
所謂合適，代表的是一種比較舒適的狀態。很可能因為舒適，便產生習慣，因為習慣，而造就平淡。沒有了三天一吵，兩天一鬧，也就沒有了刻骨銘心的愛與恨。它的前提是，兩人在性格上能夠容忍、互補，最好是生活中，女強男弱，事業上，男強女弱。不合乎常理的愛情最美麗，合乎常理的婚姻才最長久。無論如何，婚姻都是對愛情最嚴重的磨損，愛的昇華也好，親情的建立也好，總之是跟愛情沒什麼關係了。隨著磨合的加劇，相愛時被刻意忽略的性格上的不和諧會越來越明顯，那些自認為已經愛到相知的男女，此時才發現，他竟然與自己一樣孤芳自賞，一樣自我，一樣不切實際，一樣貪玩，一樣不求上進，或者一樣地不甘平庸。愛情講究的是「共性」，而婚姻則講究和諧的「差異性」，惟有取長補短，才能避免磨合得皮開肉綻。
你能跟誰談一輩子戀愛呢？
而那些曾經讓我們欲仙欲死的憂鬱的人、浪漫的人、多情的人、超酷超屌的人，他們適合與大多數女人戀愛，卻不適合與大多數女人結婚。如果你不是大野洋子，絕對不能指望降伏約翰·列儂。
「我覺得你們在一起不合適。」當有親朋好友如此評價你們的關係時，絕對不要一笑置之，甚至暗忖，關於我們的事，你又懂多少。你不妨想想，我們究竟哪兒不合適，是可以克服的，還是很難克服的，是旁人的錯覺還是果有其事。
女人當然是理智越少越快樂，談一輩子戀愛更快樂，問題是，你能跟誰談一輩子戀愛呢？
經本人實踐體驗，證明上述文字，是實話。
只有愛情不代表就能結婚
當初愛得深，是因為太過想像。在愛情中，惺惺相惜最重要，而婚姻考驗的卻是兼容性。兩個同樣高品質的零件，不在一台機器上時，彼此傾慕，你中有我，我中有你。放到一台機器上，運轉起來，卻往往因為雙方的功能都過於強大與張揚，而你磕了我，我磕了你。
沒有愛情的婚姻是有風險的，然而，如果覺得只有愛情就可以結婚，恐怕風險更大。「如果覺得合適就結婚吧」，這是無數母親面對女兒的終身大事時的態度。她沒有說愛，而說合適，不是因為「愛」這個字眼太黃色太肉麻，她說不出口，而是在潛意識裡，經歷了漫長婚姻生活的母親們，看重的不再是愛，而是合適。
先磨合到「合適」再談論婚姻
大仲馬說：「爭吵與傷害，正是試探愛的手段。」每一個有過深愛的人都應該清楚，當你很深很深地愛著一個人，往往是無法容忍平淡的。隔三岔五就要製造事端， 讓雙方的情緒陷入谷底。從谷底掙紮起來的痛疼感是對愛最好的證明。所謂愛恨交織，沒有恨，也就沒有愛。愛得死去活來的戀人，在老輩人看來，多半不宜走入婚姻，所謂「深愛不壽」。或者乾脆來個愛情馬拉松，先磨合到「合適」，再談論婚姻。
所謂合適，代表的是一種比較舒適的狀態。很可能因為舒適，便產生習慣，因為習慣，而造就平淡。沒有了三天一吵，兩天一鬧，也就沒有了刻骨銘心的愛與恨。它的前提是，兩人在性格上能夠容忍、互補，最好是生活中，女強男弱，事業上，男強女弱。不合乎常理的愛情最美麗，合乎常理的婚姻才最長久。無論如何，婚姻都是對愛情最嚴重的磨損，愛的昇華也好，親情的建立也好，總之是跟愛情沒什麼關係了。隨著磨合的加劇，相愛時被刻意忽略的性格上的不和諧會越來越明顯，那些自認為已經愛到相知的男女，此時才發現，他竟然與自己一樣孤芳自賞，一樣自我，一樣不切實際，一樣貪玩，一樣不求上進，或者一樣地不甘平庸。愛情講究的是「共性」，而婚姻則講究和諧的「差異性」，惟有取長補短，才能避免磨合得皮開肉綻。
你能跟誰談一輩子戀愛呢？
而那些曾經讓我們欲仙欲死的憂鬱的人、浪漫的人、多情的人、超酷超屌的人，他們適合與大多數女人戀愛，卻不適合與大多數女人結婚。如果你不是大野洋子，絕對不能指望降伏約翰·列儂。
「我覺得你們在一起不合適。」當有親朋好友如此評價你們的關係時，絕對不要一笑置之，甚至暗忖，關於我們的事，你又懂多少。你不妨想想，我們究竟哪兒不合適，是可以克服的，還是很難克服的，是旁人的錯覺還是果有其事。
女人當然是理智越少越快樂，談一輩子戀愛更快樂，問題是，你能跟誰談一輩子戀愛呢？
經本人實踐體驗，證明上述文字，是實話。
- 2月 16 週四 201216:43
NBA Rising Star Jeremy Lin Not Too Busy to Pray
NBA Rising Star Jeremy Lin Not Too Busy to Pray
12:58PM EST 2/15/2012 Gordon Govier
After Jeremy Lin set an NBA record for the New York Knicks with an incredible stretch of 109 points scored in his first four starts, and the New York Times included a link to StudentSoul in one of its Lin stories, InterVarsity Christian Fellowship's page views went through the roof. “Linsanity” it has been dubbed.
Because he was a varsity athlete, Lin's involvement in the Harvard-Radcliffe Asian American Christian Fellowship (HRAACF) and the broader Asian community at Harvard was somewhat limited, according to Adrian Tam, who was an HRAACF Campus staffer during that period.
“Jeremy was in the spotlight at Harvard before he was in the spotlight in the NBA,” Tam says. “He showed that Asian-Americans could be leaders, they could be athletic, and they could be bold and open about their faith in a winsome way.”
In a video testimony, Lin said he missed Christian community at Harvard until he connected with HRAACF. Tam became a spiritual mentor to Lin, meeting with him regularly, studying the Bible together and reading together such books as Too Busy Not to Pray. “He loved his roommates, spending lots of intense one-on-one time with them, leading investigative Bible studies with them, and just plain hanging out with them,” Tam says.
What Tam remembers most about Lin, from the time they first met, was his humility. “Even though he was more accomplished, smarter and just plain bigger than I was, he always treated me with respect and honor,” Tam says. “He was real with me, earnestly desiring to follow God in all things. He had a quiet ambition—not only to be the best basketball player he could be, but also to be the best Christ-follower he could be.”
“Jeremy Lin is the kind of alum that makes InterVarsity Asian American Ministries proud,” says James Choung, director of InterVarsity’s Asian American Ministries (AAM). “I'm not talking about his prowess on the court, though it's fun to see. What I love is that when he's given the spotlight, he gives glory to God and others in a way where his humility shines through. And because of who he is, he's giving national attention to Asian-American Christianity as a whole.”
HRAACF is one of eight InterVarsity chapters at Harvard and currently has about 50 students regularly involved in its activities. Its history goes back 18 years to a time when InterVarsity student leaders noticed a growing number of Asian-American students who weren’t engaged by any campus ministry.
One of those leaders, Tom Lin, graduated in 1994 and joined InterVarsity staff, commissioned to plant HRAACF. Today Tom Lin (no relation to Jeremy) is InterVarsity’s vice president for missions and the director of Urbana.
“Generations of staff and student leaders have influenced HRAACF students, and I think we all count it a great privilege and joy when we see world-changers like Jeremy,” Tom Lin says. “I personally am inspired, and so thankful to God for the role that this InterVarsity chapter has played in Jeremy Lin’s life.”
InterVarsity AAM chapters are operating on over two dozen other U.S. college campuses. However, more than two-thirds of the Asian-American students involved with InterVarsity are a part of multiethnic chapters.
“AAM seeks to introduce Jesus to students who would never enter a majority culture fellowship,” says James Choung. “And with the growing numbers of Asian-Americans on campus, we're needed more than ever before. As they take on more influence in our culture, like Jeremy Lin, we hope that our ministries will prepare Asian Americans to exert that influence with the love and values of Jesus.”
In a video below, Lin recommends two Christian music artists to the television network Fuse, saying he listens to them “to remind myself why I'm playing the game and to remind myself I'm playing to glorify God.”
12:58PM EST 2/15/2012 Gordon Govier
After Jeremy Lin set an NBA record for the New York Knicks with an incredible stretch of 109 points scored in his first four starts, and the New York Times included a link to StudentSoul in one of its Lin stories, InterVarsity Christian Fellowship's page views went through the roof. “Linsanity” it has been dubbed.
Because he was a varsity athlete, Lin's involvement in the Harvard-Radcliffe Asian American Christian Fellowship (HRAACF) and the broader Asian community at Harvard was somewhat limited, according to Adrian Tam, who was an HRAACF Campus staffer during that period.
“Jeremy was in the spotlight at Harvard before he was in the spotlight in the NBA,” Tam says. “He showed that Asian-Americans could be leaders, they could be athletic, and they could be bold and open about their faith in a winsome way.”
In a video testimony, Lin said he missed Christian community at Harvard until he connected with HRAACF. Tam became a spiritual mentor to Lin, meeting with him regularly, studying the Bible together and reading together such books as Too Busy Not to Pray. “He loved his roommates, spending lots of intense one-on-one time with them, leading investigative Bible studies with them, and just plain hanging out with them,” Tam says.
What Tam remembers most about Lin, from the time they first met, was his humility. “Even though he was more accomplished, smarter and just plain bigger than I was, he always treated me with respect and honor,” Tam says. “He was real with me, earnestly desiring to follow God in all things. He had a quiet ambition—not only to be the best basketball player he could be, but also to be the best Christ-follower he could be.”
“Jeremy Lin is the kind of alum that makes InterVarsity Asian American Ministries proud,” says James Choung, director of InterVarsity’s Asian American Ministries (AAM). “I'm not talking about his prowess on the court, though it's fun to see. What I love is that when he's given the spotlight, he gives glory to God and others in a way where his humility shines through. And because of who he is, he's giving national attention to Asian-American Christianity as a whole.”
HRAACF is one of eight InterVarsity chapters at Harvard and currently has about 50 students regularly involved in its activities. Its history goes back 18 years to a time when InterVarsity student leaders noticed a growing number of Asian-American students who weren’t engaged by any campus ministry.
One of those leaders, Tom Lin, graduated in 1994 and joined InterVarsity staff, commissioned to plant HRAACF. Today Tom Lin (no relation to Jeremy) is InterVarsity’s vice president for missions and the director of Urbana.
“Generations of staff and student leaders have influenced HRAACF students, and I think we all count it a great privilege and joy when we see world-changers like Jeremy,” Tom Lin says. “I personally am inspired, and so thankful to God for the role that this InterVarsity chapter has played in Jeremy Lin’s life.”
InterVarsity AAM chapters are operating on over two dozen other U.S. college campuses. However, more than two-thirds of the Asian-American students involved with InterVarsity are a part of multiethnic chapters.
“AAM seeks to introduce Jesus to students who would never enter a majority culture fellowship,” says James Choung. “And with the growing numbers of Asian-Americans on campus, we're needed more than ever before. As they take on more influence in our culture, like Jeremy Lin, we hope that our ministries will prepare Asian Americans to exert that influence with the love and values of Jesus.”
In a video below, Lin recommends two Christian music artists to the television network Fuse, saying he listens to them “to remind myself why I'm playing the game and to remind myself I'm playing to glorify God.”
- 2月 14 週二 201215:32
2012情人天氣晴
今天是情人節. 早上在台大醫院有約會.
有位戴著十字架的陶笛老師在吹奏「掌聲響起」, 可能是緬懷鳳姐的緣故吧.
回來的路上, 我在想..
- 2月 12 週日 201200:58
哈佛小子 - 林書豪、吳信信
林書豪(Jeremy Lin)是史上第一位打入NBA的台裔球員，也是自1954年以來，第一位打進NBA的哈佛大學畢業生！頂著如此稀奇的光環，林書豪卻很謙卑，因為他知道，是一股神奇的力量一路牽引著他。林書豪在哈佛主修經濟、副修社會學，但他說，若有一天要高掛球鞋，他不會去當華爾街金童，而是要去傳福音、作見證。
- 2月 11 週六 201213:31
林書豪飆38分 Kobe成手下敗將!!!!
現在每位台灣人都有義務要知道誰是林書豪及他所代表的....!!!!!!! 連Kobe和湖人都打爆了. 對, 你沒聽錯, "Kobe". 賽前他指名未聞林最近的表現. 雖然K表現還是名副其實, 但相信賽後被這位黃皮膚個子又不大的台灣人技壓後, 我們不得不承認, 許多熱血真實的歷史正在被創寫. 此時此刻, 歷歷在目, 不用多說!!!!!
Glory to God in Whom Lin trusts and give credit to!!!
Yahoo新聞 - 作者： 倪芝蓉 | Yahoo!奇摩 – 2012年2月11日 下午12:24
- 2月 08 週三 201220:18
《我想回到初衷》
2012年2月8日 雨、雨天、還是下著雨
結果收到電話的是我, 但心情反而放很鬆, 「很ok」(LoL). 在「很不ok」又很冷的場所, 有他們陪伴真的像靠近暖爐, 感到分外溫馨. 謝謝. 滿滿的祝福他們以後無論在哪, 都會得到肯定、得到幸福. 我也祈禱, 他爸爸的病能好起來, 認識「愛」.
或許, 在低溫濕冷的城市, 這一夜, 也是有感人的小插曲, 點燃所有小人物心中的盼望 -- 好聽、動人、美美的. 真是「太ok了」, 因為上帝正在細細傾聽, 雨水聲中, 夾雜的淚滴, 然後預備著終有一天, 綻放雨過天晴、最燦爛迷人的彩虹.
-- 《片刻組成永恆哪》
